
“The primary difference between rich people and poor people is how they handle their fears”
Knowing how to manage risk is one of the prerequisites of financial literacy. Once you’ve fulfilled all the prerequisites and become fully literate, does financial freedom follow? Not necessarily. Certain personal obstacle can prevent even the most financially literate from developing abundant wealth. Despite all their knowledge, they’ll continue working full time just to pay the bills instead of living the life they dream.
By learning to recognize personal obstacles, you can overcome them. Here are the obstacles that you should overcome to develop abundant wealth.
1. Fear.
Fear of losing money is the main reason 90 percent of the population struggles financially. But fear isn’t the real problem. It’s how people handle fear that matters. The primary difference between rich people and poor people is how they handle the fear of losing money. Some people, when hit with a financial loss give up. Others transform the loss into a win. Losers are defeated by failure. Winners are inspired by it. The real reason for lack of financial success was that people play to safe. People are so afraid of losing money that they do lose it. These are people, driven by fear, playing not to lose. Having a financial plan for security and comfort first are important. But if you have any desire to become rich, you must focus, not diversify.
If the prospect of failure frightens you, then play it safe. Keep your daytime job until you have enough cash to invest and consult with a financial planner. But if the prospect of failure inspires you to fight and win, maybe you should change yourself to change your financial habits. Educate yourself and take some financial risks. The more education you have, the less risk there will be.
2. Cynicism.
All of us have some Chicken Little in us. Chicken Little is a doom and gloom attitude toward life. It’s a classic cynic. If you want to be rich, you need to stop listening to their clucking. We hear that noise all around us, from friends, family, co-workers, and the media, and we tend to fear because inside each of us is a little bit of chicken. Why should we ignore the cynics? Because cynics never win. It’s the people who read a situation correctly who end up winning, the analysts. Cynicism blinds you to opportunities, while analysis opens your eyes to possibilities. One leads to paralysis, the other to action.
Think of things you don’t want to happen and things you do want to happen. If your “I don’t want” outweighs your “I want”, you may be letting doubt and fear close your mind instead of open your eyes.
3. Laziness.
Busy people are often the laziest. Busyness is a form of avoidance. If you stay busy you can avoid some of the things you don’t want to face like exercising or taking care of your wealth. What’s the cure for laziness? A little greed. But too much of greed isn’t bad? Too much of it, yes. An excess of anything is bad. The fact is that all of us secretly harbor a desire to have new or exciting things. We have been told by our parents and others to suppress that desire. We have made to feel guilty about it. In truth, guilt is worse than greed. Guilt stifles dreams. When we stop saying “Life is too hectic to change it” and say, instead “It’s time to find new ways to earn wealth”, we begin to cure ourselves of our busy laziness. Make a list of what you really want, and don’t limit it according to someone else’s idea of what you shouldn’t have, be truthful with yourself.
When your list is complete, step back and appraise it. Don’t ask yourself whether you can afford the things on your list, but rather how can you afford them. This fresh appraisal will create a stronger mind and more dynamic spirit, helping you to shed your lazy ways.
4. Bad Habits.
When you pay for your bills at the first of the month, do you have something left? Probably not. If so, that’s the main reason you’re struggling financially, you have bad habits. The worst financial habit is to pay your creditors before you pay yourself. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pay your bills on time. What it does mean is that you should pay yourself first even if you are short of money. How can you pay yourself? It’s all a matter of motivation. The creditors will scream louder if they aren’t paid, not you, they are bullies and because they are bullies the pressure to pay them will be so great that it will force you to seek sources of income other than what you are making working for someone else.
What laziness won’t get you to do, pressure will. By paying yourself first, you will become mentally and financially stronger, and better equipped to vanquish the bullies.
5. Arrogance.
Arrogance is ego plus ignorance. The ignorance is hidden behind the ego. Many people try to bluster their way through financial discussions when they don’t know what they are talking about. They are not lying, but they are not telling the truth either. The world of finance is full of people who don’t know what they are talking about. In financial matters, it’s easy to stumble over your own ignorance and fail. When you are arrogant you believe that what you don’t know is unimportant. In truth, what you don’t know is as important as what you do know.
Instead of arrogantly hiding your ignorance and buffing your way to failure, start educating yourself for success. The real measure of your arrogance is brutal honestly, in your heart you are aware of what it is you don’t know, no matter how well hidden from the world it may be. Go ahead, admit your ignorance.
6. Disappointment.
Dou you react with disappointment when things don’t go as you would hope? Many people turn disappointment into a long-term liability. “I should have known I would fail” these are the words of people who have let disappointment stop them from learning. As you get ready to embark on your journey to financial freedom, “prepare yourself for disappointment.” Why? because if you are prepared for disappointment, you have a chance of turning disappointment into an asset.
Preparing yourself for disappointment doesn’t mean you won’t still be upset and concerned. But if you are prepared, you won’t beat up on yourself too hard. This is important, since being too hard on yourself will make you overly cautions about taking risks or trying new ideas. If you can face your failures, control your emotions, and use disappointment to learn new financial skills, you will flourish.
Can you overcome the six obstacles? Let them hinder you, and you will find yourself following the path poor man, working harder and harder for money and having less and less time with your family. Conquer them, and you will find yourself following the path of rich man, full of confidence and having your money work hard for you.